Approaching a woman in the daytime can be very intimidating for a lot of guys who are just starting out. Initially, it can be very difficult to actually get the balls to go over and talk to her. But there are quite a few things you can do that will make it much easier, and also get her to see you as a very attractive guy. You’re wondering how to attract a woman and how to cold approach in the daytime? Keep reading and you’ll learn exactly how to do it in a way that maximizes your chances for success.
When you see a gorgeous woman that you’d like to approach, one of the worst things you can do is overthink the situation. In most cases, the more time you spend thinking about how you’re going to approach, the more nervous you’ll get. This is why when you see her, the best thing to do is walk over and talk to her asap. Be like Nike and just do it.
Worried about getting rejected? The sooner you break free of this worry the better
Yes, rejection can feel like the worst thing in the World when you’re first starting out. But the fact is, every guy gets rejected, and those who don’t let it bother them are the ones who get ahead. One of the best ways of dealing with rejection is to realize that, even if you get rejected, it’s not the end of the World! There’s plenty of other attractive women out there and you never know, your next approach might be a huge success.
With this in mind, there are ways to actually feel good after a rejection. Back when I was single and approaching lots of women in the daytime, I got rejected the majority of the time (most of the women said they were already taken, which tends to happen more often when approaching during the day than it does in, say, a bar setting). But this didn’t bother me because even though I got rejected, I was still able to get the women smiling, and I could see the attraction in their eyes. Plus, the times I did land numbers off these women made it all worthwhile. To learn how you too can get women to look at you this way when you’re approaching them, keep reading.
Approach in the most attractive way possible
Follow these key points to get her to see you as a very attractive guy:
– Hold strong eye contact for 80% of the interaction
– Make sure your posture is good
– Speak with a clear, confident voice
– Talk to her with a flirty grin on your face
– If she gives you her number, don’t be overexcited. Act as if you get numbers from beautiful women all the time
By applying these key points and showing her that you have huge confidence in yourself, she’ll most likely feel some attraction towards you (even if she’s already taken).
Now that you know how to appear attractive when approaching women, it’s time to have a game plan.
Have a game plan
When approaching women it’s always a good idea to have a basic game plan. You want to have a goal in mind so that you don’t get caught spinning in circles when you’re actually talking to them. The main goal is usually to get the girl’s number (from there, solid text game can be used to secure the date).
Just follow the points mentioned above and be sure to throw in a little compliment to get her smiling and feeling good.
Approaching gets easier with practice, so the more you do it, the easier it will become!
These were a few tips that I learnt from my friend Rob Judge and his ebook The 4 Elements of Game. And if you’re serious about attracting hotter women then I highly recommend you learn his powerful system that you can use to get more dates, more sex, and more relationships. What this “4EG System” does is:
Gives more thorough explanations of how to successfully approach women in the daytime, at bars, nightclubs, or anywhere else
Allows you to line up as many dates as you want, with as many women as you want
Gets women infatuated with you and hanging onto your every word
Ensures that your dates always end with her back at your place
The best part is, you don’t have to change your own unique personality to succeed with this system…
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